*sigh* Not again!

I dreamed about The Ex again last night.  This time there is a reasonable explanation, but it's no less annoying.  I logged into facebook on Saturday to be greeted by a picture of him with an old coworker (she is on my friends list: he is not (not even sure he's on facebook -- if he is, his profile is private and/or he has me blocked, because I can't find him)).  *groan*  However, because the updates move relatively fast, it disappeared quickly.

However. 

Now facebook thinks it's an excellent idea to post "highlights" in the right sidebar!  NOT.  At least, not when his grinning mug keeps. showing. up.

By Sunday night, the picture had disappeared from the sidebar.  Yay!

Yay, you say?  Nay, oh nay.

Monday morning, I logged into iGoogle (which? l.o.v.e.) only to find HIS FACE GRINNING UP AT ME.  AAAARRRRGGGGHHHH!!!!  You see, I have a facebook gadget on iGoogle to give me updates instead of logging into the site.  That being said, it's a little... "glitchy": it will give you three current-ish status updates on a semi-regular basis, but if someone posts a picture (or is TAGGED in one), it shows up for.ev.er.

Last night, I dreamed he was at my place.  OUR place.  So was my mom (Chebbar was, too -- they were both fine with the visitor and neither seemed particularly upset/annoyed/weirded out by it): she's been featuring prominently in my dreams lately, just in the background (in a "Mom was there, too" kind of way), but there nonetheless.  The Ex and I were in the bathroom (door open *wink*) discussing lord knows what.  He was visibly upset, likely about a (real) family tragedy.  I remember hugging him and telling him that I would always love him (just not in THAT way).  That's all I remember. 

When I got to work today, I deleted that damned facebook gadget from iGoogle.  Out of sight, out of mind, right?  Geesh.