Wednesday, February 9, 2011

I'm kinda okay

In an effort to balance Friday's rather serious post (although, after all of the comments, emails, tweets, and DMs, it would seem that it needed to be said: I found out that I'm not the only one who feels this way, and hopefully others realized the same), I thought I'd post a list of things I like about myself that I wrote a week ago (I probably should have reread this list instead of writing Friday's post, but I digress).  Now, if you know me in the slightest, you'll know that this post is even harder for me to share - leaves me feeling far more vulnerable and exposed  - than Friday's did.  Please be gentle with me.  :)

  • my curls
  • the natural "streaks" in my hair
  • my green eyes
  • how my lashes look when all mascara'd up
  • my smile
  • my straight (thanks, Dr. Lock!), white teeth
  • my ears
  • how easily my cheeks flush
  • my tattoos
  • my hands - my fingers/nail shape remind me of my great grandmother
  • the WHITE hairs on my head like Great Grandma
  • my freckles
  • my rack (heh)
  • my waist
  • my arms that like to hug
  • my legs that keep me going
  • painted toes
  • my empathy
  • my ability to smile/laugh easily
  • my love for my family and friends
  • the ability and willingness to offer love and support unselfishly
  • my excitability
  • my dorkiness
  • my love of reading
  • my love of music
  • appreciation for beauty
  • my sense of humour
  • fierce protectiveness
  • willingness to lend a hand and help
  • my new-found ability to go with the flow (mostly)
  • my stubbornness
  • my determination to stick to my morals, ethics, and principles
  • my understanding
  • that I'm easily content with the simple things in life - what I have is good enough
  • my ability to feel and love
  • my propensity for forgiveness (mostly)
  • knowing when to cut my losses
  • knowing when to protect myself and my heart (mostly)
  • my integrity
  • my sticktoitiveness 
And now that I've either bored you to death or made you gag (yeah, still working on cutting out the self-deprecating humour... ) I'm totally going to be that asshole who tells you this type of a list does help, and that if *I* can do it, anyone can.  (The more you write, the easier it gets to move away from the surface stuff like looks.)

If you identified with my last post all, give this a shot.  You may be surprised.  Or, tell me just ONE THING you like about yourself in the comments.  :)
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14 comments:

  1. Great list! I love it!
    One thing I like about me: I am a good friend.

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  2. Great list. Glad to see your green eyes and curly hair on it.

    Blessings

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  3. Ok - I admit I like my ass and my legs. I posted them on my blog with my 60lb loss photo. Hey I like the way they look, always have. ....sigh..hah ;-)

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  4. I always try to understand the other side. That's my thing. (but there's more than one, too) xo

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  5. I love my sense of humor, as depraved as it can be sometimes. ;-)

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  6. one thing i love about me (and you):

    my badassery. yes, that is a word. and you have it in spades.

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  7. Beautiful list Chan. Um, I would say even through my injury I am still a good mom. Even if it's different now. <3 you.

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  8. I love this...and you! Good for you for doing this.

    One thing I love about me: I support my children FIERCELY, it turns out, I AM a good mom. (Huzzah!)

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  9. i really should do one of these. one thing i like about myself: i can sing. and my daughter never gets tired of hearing me sing. (okay i guess technically that's TWO things -- bonus!)

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  10. I think I'm going to go a little bit silly & say my feet...well, actually my toes. Despite not having a foot fetish or anything I've always thought my toes were kind of cute. :-)

    Love your list hun, make sure you reread that on a regular basis.

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  11. I agree with it all or at least the stuff I know and the rest I'm sure is true.

    One thing I like about me: I make no pretenses, I am who I am.

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  13. I like a lot of things about myself. I guess I'll say my eyes are my best feature, though, since they'll be around the longest. Hair can [hopefully will!] dry with age, racks can droop...but eyes are pretty consistent. My sweetie contends that I have The Most Beautiful Eyes in The Universe. Yeah, he loves me. ;p

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